It was to be a routine gallbladder removal surgery for mom. Today was the day. Originally scheduled for 10:30am, some delays pushed it to 1:45pm. I made the trip this morning and spent some good time with her before she headed into surgery. Other family members would be there when she was done, and I had things I had to get done back home, so I left.
My phone rang less than three hours later. The first words said to me: "Stay calm, and listen..." Mom was having serious complications and had been put in ICU. She couldn't breathe well and her vitals were suggesting horrible things.
After ruling out a few other things, a blood clot in the lungs was the likely culprit. By this time, Mom was on a ventilator and heavily sedated. Amber and I arrived at the ICU just as they were conducting a CT scan. The results came back negative. No blood clot!
The likely reason for the complications: Mild heart failure. The plan is to gradually take her off the ventilator starting sometime early to mid-morning. Until then, she's out. In fact, she'll likely not remember anything since before the surgery.
I was truly scared tonight.
And there's so much more I will write about this, later-- the emotions, the thoughts--I just don't have time tonight. It's super late.
What I can tell you is this-- I maintained the integrity of my maintenance calorie budget, I remained abstinent from refined sugar, I exceeded my daily water goal and I stayed connected with great support.
Speaking of great support--a sincere thank you to those sending best wishes, concern, and prayers.
Continuous Accountability Live-Tweet Stream:
#morningdeal done✔️ 20 push-ups-20 squats-2 cups water. It's fast coffee time-running behind! Eeek!! pic.twitter.com/CdhrSrLvL1— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
2 tbsp half & half in this dark roast. 3 tbsp in refill to-go, soon. 100 cal. pic.twitter.com/ahUExQ6wKw— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
Breakfast in MyFitnessPal... pic.twitter.com/KsNFwZEawC— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
Avocado omelet. 2 whole eggs-2 egg whites with 106g avocado. 6.1oz apple & 120g red grapes. 508 cal. pic.twitter.com/K6kZLI9nIE— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
Yesterday's cup, today's travel coffee to-go. 3 tbsp half & half. 60 cal. pic.twitter.com/VojHOIkDPK— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
2 cups water #watertracking Holdover until later lunch- 2oz cheddar cheese cubes and approx. 4.5oz banana. 292 cal. pic.twitter.com/ymIpZLrqs6— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
2 cups water with fast lunch #wateraccountability pic.twitter.com/lADXPHCpHA— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
Lunch in MyFitnessPal... pic.twitter.com/DNWfxnKXun— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
2 chicken tacos w/approx: 4oz chicken, tomato salsa, easy-easy sr crm-approx 2 tbsp, lettuce & 14g cheese. 442 cal. pic.twitter.com/GIvv0nczAu— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
Three tablespoons half & half in this after lunch cup of coffee. 60 cal. pic.twitter.com/Yd80ENzpix— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 1, 2016
3 cup water bottle exceeds #watergoal Approximately 4.5oz banana #holdoveruntildinner 72 cal. pic.twitter.com/rfPuyEq1xW— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 2, 2016
2 cups water with late dinner #wateraccountability pic.twitter.com/lWbhukDeY8— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 2, 2016
Dinner in MFP... pic.twitter.com/EXCX2kn1qs— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 2, 2016
4oz & 5oz bone-in pork chops, small baked potato with approximately 3 tbsp sour cream. 3 tomato slices. 616 cal. pic.twitter.com/XOvx19akYK— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 2, 2016
6.9oz apple & 79g red seedless grapes #lastfoodofday 149 cal. pic.twitter.com/8IGqS3Apbe— Sean Anderson (@SeanAAnderson) September 2, 2016
Thank you for reading and your continued support,
Strenghth,
Sean
Saying prayers for your mom Sean.
ReplyDeleteSending thoughts and prayers Sean to all of you xxx
ReplyDeleteThat is very scary. I hope she is ok and that you get good news soon. Amazed and proud of you that you didn't binge (which of course wouldn't have helped you or your mum). Stay strong.
ReplyDeletePrayers to you and your mom
ReplyDeletePrayers for your mom and family, Sean. Full recovery for Mom and maintaining your recovery for you.
ReplyDeleteWill be thinking about and praying for your mother today...
ReplyDeletePraying for your Mom's speedy recovery, Sean.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely praying for comfort for you Sean and health and wellbeing for your Mom.
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